Parental drinking during holidays: Take action and speak up
- Nordic Alcohol and Drug Policy Network
- Jul 21
- 2 min read
21.07.2025 - Many Norwegians notice children who are not doing well during the holidays. Ragnhild Kaski from the alcohol awareness organization Av-og-til believes adults share a collective responsibility to help.
A recent survey by Ipsos for Av-og-til shows that four out of ten people have seen intoxicated adults together with children during the summer holidays.
“These figures show that many of us witness children who may be having a tough time during the holidays,” says Ragnhild Kaski, Secretary General of Av-og-til.
Extra vulnerable during holidays
When parents drink too much during the holidays, children are exposed to double risk, Kaski explains.
“Children are especially vulnerable during holidays. They are away from their daily routines, maybe in a foreign country with a language they don’t understand, and without their usual support network. That makes it even more important for adults to pay attention and step in if we see children who aren’t doing well,” she says.
Adults must dare to care
Kaski encourages more people to have the courage to help.
“It can feel uncomfortable to get involved in someone else’s family life, but remember, you could be the trusted adult a child needs. Together, we can take collective responsibility, notice the children around us, and help ensure more of them have a safe and happy holiday,” she urges.
How you can help children who are struggling:
Sometimes, it’s enough just to show that you see the child. A look, a smile, or a simple comment like, “Are you okay?” can make a big difference. Being noticed by a caring adult can give a child reassurance and hope.
If it doesn’t feel right to intervene directly, you can contact someone in charge—for example, hotel staff, bar staff, or the reception at a campsite. They often have experience handling such situations.
If you are abroad, the Norwegian Seamen’s Church (Sjømannskirken) can be a good support. They have experience helping Norwegians in difficult situations and can act as a bridge to local support services.
You can also always contact the Alarm Phone for Children and Young People for advice on what to do—completely anonymously. The number is 116 111 from Norway and +47 954 11 755 from abroad.
Remember, for a child in a difficult situation, the worst thing can be when other adults see what’s happening but choose not to act.
Source: Av-og-til
